Sorry to be so late today, but I had unexpected company last night. Good fun, but the blog, I fear, escaped my mind.
We watched the special on Whitney Houston, and I couldn’t help but feel such great sorrow about a talent lost. One of my all-time favorite song sis “I’ll always love you,” and one of my favorite films is “Body Guard.” I intend to watch the funeral today, partly to say goodbye and also because of the music.
Last week I watched as some objected to the New Jersey governor’s decision to fly the flag half-mast today (Saturday). Some of the objections came from the families of our dead warriors. I understand their objection, but I also understand his decision. She was beloved by New Jersey, and her sad choices didn’t change the joy she gave to so many of its residents, as well as those around the world.
We can’t even begin to understand the pressures of a world famous songstress who, at 48, lost some of the power of her voice and watched her career spiral downward One friend on a newscast said she was broke, and that her latest tour was a disaster, that she was booed and some of the audiences walked out. Being a writer who has experienced rejection, I can understand a little of the feeling of failure. Then magnified it by a thousandfold. To go from a world icon to the object of ridicule on U-tube must be almost intolerable.
A voice coach said she’d been working very hard on a voice damaged by smoke and alcohol and drugs, that it was coming back. She’s just finished a film which she hoped would help restore her reputation. There was hope.
But there must have been great despair as well when she attended the ceremonies for the top music awards. She was not among the nominees. She was not among those asked to sing.
It must have been a terrible hurt.
This blog is certainly not to excuse her behavior, her retreat to alcohol and drugs, but no one can ever take away the joy and memories she has given. How many of her songs helped develop romance and how many helped the hurts?.
So I don’t begrudge her the lowering of the flag in tribute to what she had given us. And I bid her a sad goodbye.
What is your favorite Whitney Houston song?


























